ok major dilemma!!! seriously iiiii am freakin out kinda!
okayy so the guy i lost my virginity to. yea. we were at the same party last night. i had 4 shots of bacardi 151, which is 151 fucking proof! 75% alcohol!! that is way too much for me!! i was so ridiculously drunk, but not pukey or sick or anything. just goofy and crazy as fuckk.
so basicallyyy i was all over him. we did shit. aaand he was like 'wanna go in the basement' and i was like YES so we did. and had sex. on a dryer hahahahaha!
so heres the dilemma: no.condom.
sooo i didnt really think anything of it til i told my friends and they were freeaking me out and like OMG DID HE PULL OUT ARE YOU ON BC BLAH BLAH blahh so i was like scaring myself and i went to a family planning place to get the morn after pill and filled out a bunch of papers. they asked questions about my period.
i dont get a period.
iii was scared because i thought theyd assume i was preggers already. so i jsut lied and said i got it in february and she was like "oh my. well we need to give you a test right now." and i was like FUUUUUUGG omggg okay okay. so i did.
it was negative.
huge sigh of relief.
so then we were talking and she said "now take both these pills as soon as possible. the sooner you take them the more effective theyll be. by exactly 3 weeks after you take this, youll get a period. i dont care how it is: small, heavy, brown, whatever. you need a period. if you dont get a period, then theres a big chance youll be pregnant. your body needs to flush out what needs to be flushed out in order to not get pregnant. MAKE SURE. you get. a period."
so now im really scared. i havent gotten a period in over two years since im so active and thin. idk what to do!! i cant just MAKE myself get one. god so now im just kinda freakin. i dont really know what i can do. i cant talk to my mom about it. my friends all know what is up, they know about the unprotected sex, the period situation, everything.
:(
idk what i can do. im takin a preg test in like 3 weeks just to see. i think ill be ok.
but the bigger issue is my period..or lack of. i KNOW i dont want it, it SUCKS major. but its just such a hastle to deal with talking about with doctors and shit like that. idk. ive got thinkin to do about this. any inputs? comments? i could sure use them.
and please spare me on the talk about unprotected sex. seriously. i know its fucking dumb. no need to have people lecturing me about it!!! i got enough bs from that lady at the clinic. as well as enough condoms to last me like a year hahaha. she gave me like thirty condoms!!!
xx
stay pretty girls
oh, and 109.0. worked out a lot. ate a little. drank too much.
xx, again
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I have a suggestion for the period thing- eating beans and whole grains. I know, I know, calories, carbs! But they help your fertility (once you know for sure that you're not pregnant). So maybe doing something like eating one bowl of 100 calorie organic oatmeal every morning (gotta keep that metabolism up!) might help you get your periods back, while keeping your weight down.
Aside from that, I'd guess you're not pregnant. I've had unprotected sex a few times- it doesn't make you a hoe haha- and, unless you're super dooper fertile, you're probably not going to get pregnant from just one time.
Don't be scared, we've all been there xox
Hey hunny, first let me say... i've been preggers about 4 times 2 kids and 2 miscarry's. Last year when I was only eating 100 cals a day I didn't get a period for months- there is no way in hell you are pregnant if you don't get a period point blank. If you body doesn't have a period you don't ovulate- and you don't get preggers. Don't worry!! please trust me! When you don't get a period you don't ovulate meaning there is no egg to fertilize. You are all good!! pregnancy should be the least of your worries- you are more likely to have an STD then be pregnant at this point. And don't feel ashamed i've had my share of unprotected sex with random guys in random places when I was younger everyone does it!! and if they say they don't they lying!! lol. Good luck and stop worrying!!!
I'm final year med and a total fertility expert having had multiple scares myself!
You are incredibly unlikely to get pregnant if you haven't had a period in 2 years. INCREDIBLY. Plus with the morning after pill there is just no way.
The stuff in the morning after pill can make your uterus contract, thus the period in a couple weeks. But if you don't get one, doesn't mean anything. You still won't be pregnant.
No stress :)
Hey, thanks for the encouragement. I almost gave in to eating some really fatty Mexican fast food, but then I read your comment =)
Try eating a ton of protein. When my mom would ask about me and when I had my period i would just eat a ton of protein to kind of make my body have one.
If you aren't having periods thought you probably won't get preggers.
good luck
The morning after pill isn't foolproof - I took it and didn't get a period, didn't stress about it, and ended up pregnant. *However* that's not intended to scare you in the slightest. In my case, I was normal weight at the time and ovulating / mensturating regularly. If your body can't even find the energy to have a period, there's no way in hell it has the energy to make a baby!
If you're planning to have kids in the future and don't want to damage your fertility permanently, you might want to go on the contraceptive pill - it makes you have kind of a fake period every month even if you're too underweight to have one normally.
I know thinking you're pregnant is the most terrifying thing in the world but you physically can't be, so please don't stress :)
its okay.
first things first- calm down.
you cant handle problems if your stressed so just try to think things out.
its not possible youre pregnant if you havent had your period cuz of eating stuffs.
and with the morning after pill, youre like a billion percent safe.
and dont feel bad about the whole unprotected sex making you look bad or whatever.
hey, if guys can gloat about all the sex they have, why should girls feel guilty about it? it takes two people to have sex, [well real sex that is haha] and its unfair that one gender gets special treatment.
be proud of your sexuality girl!
if you were a kid or a preteen or some ridiculous age, then of course id see where the guilt would come in, but youre a grown woman.
dont worry about it hun!
XOXO Sophia Ruins <3
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